What it takes to have someone special everyday and not just Valentine’s Day! For some of you this holiday triggers a feeling of missing out on that special someone and others of you are having fun on the discovery of knowing each day is bringing you closer to finding love! As a member of Intuitive Matchmaking you have significantly increased your odds of finding someone special because now you are in a pool of people of your caliber and they are looking for real love!
Now the trick is to understand why you are single and truthfully decide if you are willing to make the changes to embrace the possibilities of letting love in. With the right balance of Chemistry, Conversation and Charisma anything is possible. The world of dating is competitive and you need to have you’re A game on. Thankfully my agency attracts high quality people but that’s not all it takes. You need to shine above everyone else. Be the person that others can’t wait to see again!
To truly shine above others here are the things that my clients say about other clients that they really like:
· She made me laugh and kept the conversation going by being fun to talk with.
· She was beautiful and took time to put herself together for our date. It made me feel important and very lucky to share time with her.
· He was a gentleman and treated me beautifully our entire date. It felt great to be with a quality man that made me feel like the most important person in the room.
· He respectfully didn’t rush the courtship and gave me a nice hug goodnight. I wanted more but was glad he had self control. Made him more attractive.
To quickly move to the “not interested” list my clients share things that don’t work for them on a date:
· Complaining about an ex spouse or relationship
· Not hearing Thank You after the gentleman treats
· Feeling like they have to work hard at keeping the conversation going
· Being late, as it implies your date isn’t important
My challenge to you is to use today, Valentine’s Day, to let all of the old ways you have been dating out the window! Let yourself shake it up and have some fun! Be memorable even if you feel you are over the top on the HAPPY side… trust me it works. People love to be around smiling people! It’s so much more fun to know that you make your date feel great then it is to make them feel like they just had a work out dating you!
Get your sexy on! Men trim the nose hairs, ladies add some makeup!
Get your sexy on! Men trim the nose hairs, ladies add some makeup!
Here are my challenges to you! Thin out your wish list and get real with whether of not you want to be in a relationship! I’m a matchmaker so my focus is making matches for relationships! I’m not about getting you dates and dates and dates! I want you to meet someone that can discover why you are so amazing! They can’t do this if you don’t shine above everyone else they have ever met!
- Make a list of TEN things you really want in your future person
- Now cut each item into a strip and put it them in a cup
- Close your eyes and pick three things
- Now those are your three priorities… the rest are optional
Yes, this can be the most stressful thing ever or the most invigorating! Let the control go and claim the adventure! Too many clients are holding onto their “lists” because we know too much about what we don’t want and less about remembering what we love about being with someone, flaws and all!
We can choose to make all these lists and with every item on the list it is closing off one more person you could enjoy. When we were young we didn’t know any better and we just fell in love and figured out later if it would work or not. Now we are older and feel to be wiser but honestly for many of my clients the fear of being hurt is really what holds them back the most.
Yes, your new partner might be shorter than you when you wear heels but wouldn’t you rather have someone to walk with in life. Yes, your new partner might have a few pounds to lose but can you imagine the fun being motivated together to get yourself in the best shape of your lives? Yes, your new partner my die before you but wouldn’t you rather have loved for now then to have never loved at all? Yes, your partner might not have lots of money but isn’t it better to have each other and be creative. You can buy lots but what fun is it if you can’t share!
What if you just loved? Your partner might not share your faith but together you can learn about one another’s beliefs. Your partner might never want to sit and watch sports with you but think of the fun you can have going out with your buddies. Your partner might not have traveled and think of the excitement your travel expertise could bring. Let yourself love! Singles do everything they can to safe guard against finding love all while they say they really want love. Let your list go and discover what it was like to just smile and enjoy the company of a wonderful person! Make room for someone new. Stop comparing to the “one that go away” or the “ex that broke your heart”. Let him or her come in your life to be safe and treasured because you both deserve it. Too many high quality singles are alone on Valentine’s Day because they are more in love with their list of wants and needs and less in love with the possibility of being loved!
Save your pretty and save your handsome for someone special! And when they arrive, let them see you shine! Make the most of meeting quality singles and toss out your expectations of how he or she will look. Let him or her arrive just the way he or she was meant to! Love is waiting for so many people, now become that person with great Conversation by showing your true Charisma and soon the Chemistry will arrive!
Jacqueline The Matchmaker
Intuitive Matchmaking LLC
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