Thank you to my wonderful matchmaking clients. As I am surrounded by my passionate desire to see all of you enjoy the greatest love ever, I am reminded that loving yourself first is the best gift ever received.
With the incredible variety of people that have been brought to me on their quest for love, I have found that regardless if they are religious or spiritual they each know they are missing something valuable in their life. Some of my clients are celebrating Christmas today and tomorrow while others are celebrating different holidays and some are not celebrating with symbolism. Each person, just as with traditions, finds their own journey to fulfill their lives.
I ask you to take pause to reflect today and tomorrow, even if this isn’t your holiday to celebrate. Reflect on the gratitude for all you have to be thankful for since this time last year. Find things that have added joy to your simple day to day routines. Keep in your heart what is most important. Fill your mind with positive words and show uplifting actions when connecting with others. Keeping your heart open to love is a raw place to be because you don’t always know what else might try to sneak in when you are openly looking for companionship. Sometimes it is hard to let yourself walk the steps to discover love because you carry hurt from a previous lost love and other times you might want love so badly that you don’t watch out for warning signs. Love can feel scary and exciting all at the same time. Best of all love lets you know that you are alive!
The most important part is that you look around your home and heart to think about how life will be enriched when you make room for love. Keep in mind that you already are an amazing gift to yourself and to others so now you can count your blessings for your health, your heart and your ability to seek love once again. Moving closer to finding real love only begins when you love yourself at the purist level. Potential partners are far more attracted to people that love themselves without ego but with personal pride. Showing your strength as
a person and your tenderness as a human makes you more attractive to another.
Often people focus more on how life will be better once their great love shows up but that implies you need to be saved or fixed by someone else. Remember that you are complete all on your own. Adding someone to your life is to enhance who you are and who they are. This is the gift you give one another. Becoming present with your current self helps you to accept yourself for all you offer, even if there are a few weaknesses that make you human.
As a matchmaker I find that standards people hold for potential or current mates is higher than the standard they hold for them self. Always keep in mind that the more you accept someone for their unique traits, the less they will judge you. Come from a gracious heart and discover one another. This allows you to find the true gift in love and partnership. Enjoy getting to know someone and don’t be surprised that you will likely learn more about yourself as you allow someone else to discover you.If you are already in a relationship take the time to find gratitude in each other. Watch the “second guessing” comments often made under our breath in moments of frustration or confusion. Focus on the gift you are given that the two of you have chosen to share time and hearts together. Moments we give one another allow us to discover a valuable and precious gift of love that we can only give from our hearts.
I ask of you to take pause this weekend to look at all you can gain by letting someone in your heart and keep your eyes open as life passes on by. Slow things down in your mind and say ‘thank you’ quietly under your breath. Take this moment to allow yourself to be at peace for exactly where your life is at right now. Once you find understanding and peace for today, you can make room for tomorrow.
Thank you for being on my gratitude list and for inspiring me daily to seek the steps to support you on your journey to find love, keep love and enjoy love.
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